My dinner at Bill Gates's house

Several years ago, I had the opportunity to attend one of the most talked about events of the summer, at least among Microsoft interns. I, along with several hundred other guests, was invited to an annual BBQ cookout at Bill Gates’ house. These had been going on for a while, however this would be the last time Mr. Gates opened his house to Microsoft employees since he would be retiring later that year.


The Drive


We drove to an office building on Microsoft's main campus in Redmond. From there, about 75 interns boarded two large coach buses similar to those used for sight seeing. The buses took us to some undisclosed location where everyone had to go through airport-level security. We were not allowed to take cameras, cell phones, or the like into Mr. Gates' premises for privacy reasons, but a simple Google search will solve that issue. From there, it was a short wait until a group of smaller buses came and drove us to the house.


It was surreal thinking that the world's richest man lived less than 3 miles from where I used to live in Downtown Bellevue. Driving to his house was very anti-climactic. There's not a lot to see, mainly because of the thick woods and foliage that follow down the long and winding driveway to the front of his house. You may have seen pictures and graphics of his house online, but it's nothing compared to seeing the real thing. 


The House (and food)


Stepping out of the smaller buses onto the driveway was an experience on it's own. I distinctly remember stepping out and feeling the texture of his driveway. It was unlike anything I've ever walked on before. Smooth, soft, and, for lack of a better word, perfect. Walking up to the entrance of the house I could see two massive doors that were open leading into a huge open space and master staircase leading down to his backyard. Massive steps, glass, gorgeous wooden beams, and what looked like a glass elevator were all exposed and absolutely stunning.


At the bottom of the staircase, I could see his movie theater and what looked like another large room to the right. There were dozens of people outside in his backyard, with gorgeous views of Lake Washington. The event was catered and the food was excellent, with your typical BBQ fare of burgers, salads, ribs, etc. I think they even served wine and beer for those over 21. For the most part, people were free to explore his backyard, walk by the dock, and his guest house. It was a totally surreal experience. I've seen this house many times while passing on Lake Washington from a boat, but never imagined that I'd be having dinner in his backyard!


After food was served and people started to mingle with other Microsoft executives, I noticed a small crowd of people gathering towards one side of the backyard. Mr. Gates had come out and started to socialize with the interns. He answered several questions and generally seemed like a very chilled-out, down-to-earth guy. I heard from some others that on another date, his children actually came out and mingled with some of the interns. 


Final Thoughts


Looking back, the intern BBQ at Bill Gates' house was certainly a nice gesture, and an indication of his willingness to give back to others. After all, Gates is the founder of the world's largest charitable foundation, the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation. At the same time, there was a bit of smart HR marketing going on, since who would not want to take a full-time offer from a company who'se CEO invites you to his house for a summer BBQ...


Still, it was an incredible experience. I've told this story to several dozen friends over countless dinners and get-togethers. Every time, they were impressed by his generosity and willingness to do something special for his interns. Recently, Bill Gates has teamed up with Warren Buffett and several other billionaires to create the Giving Pledge, where some of the world's wealthiest individuals pledge to give away the majority of their net worth to charity over their lifetime. 


While this incredible gesture of generosity will likely provide a lasting effect on society for years to come, being able to make a lasting difference in the world doesn't require having a billion dollars, or even a million dollars in the bank. That's partially the reason why givr was started. We want everyone to show how they give and the impact it has on others. There's no right way or wrong way, and it doesn't require a lot of money, if any at all. Perhaps the easiest, and most powerful way to give is by just clicking "Like" on a charitable campaign's Facebook page, or following a fundraiser on Razoo. If you have any thoughts about how you want to express your giving, consider posting it to this blog by emailing post@givr.posterous.com.

How I've already seen the benefits of Givr

As we work through the beginning stages of Givr, I have taken some time to reflect on benefits it has provided thus far, since I am a reflective person. Even though Givr is in its early infancy and not yet ready to be assessed on its results, I have already seen benefits in my own life, and so it excites me to think about the great future potential.

Because of Givr, I have already thought about how I can give more throughout the week. Givr gives me passion about the idea of engraining new and innovative ways to give into my life. So at its core I can see it start to work – since I am starting to better work the idea of giving into my habitual thoughts, I will give more this year than last. I will find new ways to give since I am thinking about it, and thus know I will look more. Furthermore, since it is on my mind, I will share that with others, hopefully encouraging them to give more as well.

All I have to do is nurture the thought in my mind, continue working with the wonderful people with Givr to grow it, and continue to see Givr grow and go into a mainstream movement so other people will be thinking about giving more as well. Ultimately this will translate into more giving. All acts must start with a vision. Givr is providing me with an exciting vision of a giving community. This is just the start.

10 ways to thank Twitter followers (via @rbakercnn) #givr

One thing I love is that generosity in spirit be of many different magnitudes. On one hand, there are actions as big as the Giving Pledge — offering millions or billions of dollars to make other people's lives better. But on the other, something as small as exchanging a smile can make someone's day. 

That's one reason I enjoy social media. The smallest gesture can affect someone's life in a place far away. Social Media Today has rounded up 10 ways to thank Twitter followers, reminding us that some forms of generosity can be just a tweet away. So instead of just saying, "Thanks for the RT," consider some of these other ways to express appreciation. They include:

- Commenting on a blog post.

- Retweeting something noteworthy in their stream. 

- Linking to their blog post. 

Read all 10 ways at Social Media Today.

Giving generously through food and books #givr

A few weeks ago, I had the pleasure of attending an end-of-summer BBQ networking event hosted by one of our givr ambassadors, Roxy Allen. It was a great afternoon filled with both new and familiar faces. Although the event was not intended to be a givr event, I think it's a great example of how people can embrace the givr movement in their everyday lives.

One of the non-traditional features at Roxy's BBQ involved a book exchange. The idea would be for each of us to bring a few books from our collection and give them to others. This was a great experience and I left with a few new books that I look forward to reading soon. 

This event showed others that giving doesn't need to be complicated or always involve money. In one afternoon, one person's generosity brought nearly two dozen people together around food and books to talk about some of the bigger issues in our society. We gave each other food, books, and most importantly new ideas, and I think this type of thing should continue.

I challenge you to think of ways to create your own events that revolve around giving and suggest them here on this blog. When you host your event, I'd love to see pictures and video. For more efficient event coordination, try Evite or use Facebook events. For better fundraising opportunities and to support non-profits check out Razoo.com.

Here is a behind the scenes video from the event. Guest chef Ryan Allen gives us a quick overview of the food being grilled up for the event.

 

 

Why I give.... by @SocialMPH

I give because I am in a position to give…

I give because I know that there are people that need my help today…

I give because holding that door for someone might set their day off on the right foot…

I give because love will conquer hate and negativity…

I give because some friends don’t, they think I won’t make a difference, and I shall prove them wrong…

I give because it just feels great…

I give because President Obama inspires me too…

I give because insects, hawks, whales do not have lobbyists with million dollar bankrolls…

I give because the Fox/Glen Beck/Palin hate machine profits from our countries division…

I give because I do not want to “grab my gun and look out for number one”…

I give because I see other people reaching their hand to those in need, and I know they need support…

I give because there is so much good in this world that just needs a little watering…

I give because I want my child to walk hand in hand with all races,creeds,religions…

I give because I love the environment, and want my grand children to see a glacier…

I give because I believe more in the power of WE, than in the power of ME!


- Mike Howard

My Giving Personality: Giving Experiences

I love to see how people's personalities come out in what they give.

One of the things I like to give is experiences.  For Christmas last year I gave my brother and his girlfriend a gift certificate to Volt, a fancy restaurant in Frederick, VA owned by Top Chef runner-up Bryan Voltaggio.  They got to brag to their friends on Facebook about the 21 courses of deliciousness they enjoyed together and will remember the evening for a long time.  That same Christmas my brother and I gave my mom a recliner.  OK, that's a material thing, but for the amount of time she spends in it, she calls it a religious experience.  She loves her relaxation.

This year on September 11 I served with 61 Young Nonprofit Professionals of DC (YNPNdc) members at the Maryland Umbrella Group.  My particular task was painting a basketball key.  It may seem small, but helping 6th graders obtain the perfect free-throw shot and box out a rebound will give them the experiences in that key they will need to become the next Candace Parker, I'm sure.

Have you considered your giving personality?  Do you like to give experiences, or perhaps books, journals, gift cards, e-cards, advice, or scrap books?  What could that say about you?

Roxy